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    Sunday Smackdown - I Don't Believe You

    08/12/07

    Permalink 12:45:28 am, by Sue Email , 485 words   English (CA)
    Categories: Paranormal - Rants, Sunday Smackdown

    Sunday Smackdown - I Don't Believe You

    Today's "smack" was inspired by one of the users on our paranormal message board.

    Basically this user went on the attack with another one implying the other user was lying at worst, and delusional at best about her experiences based on zero facts other than they did not either understand or comprehend what the other was trying to express.

    What really ticked me off is that this user in turn expects everyone to accept what they have to say at face value, and I am quite certain would be very grumpy if people said to her, "I don't believe you." The user despite being warned by three site directors, and two moderators continued on to the point where I had to type up a long missive reminding everyone of our rules, delete all her nonsense from the database, and in turn deliver a polite, but stern warning privately that such behaviour is a violation of our T.O.S, which was agreed to upon registration. UGH! I hate being moderator sometimes.....basically because I'm lazy, and this took up a better part of my morning....of which I can assure you gentle readers I had far better things to do with my time.

    You maybe wondering if this user is a die-hard CSICOPIAN .... and the answer is no. Although I will add at this point "sceptics" are very much welcome on our board. Had the user simply said I think what you are describing is natural in origin or their must be a rational explanation I do not believe in the supernatural that would have been very acceptable.

    No...this person is not a sceptic ... in fact has related their own perceived experiences....I'm not kidding! Yet had the gall to put someone else down publicly for relating theirs. The user attempted to defend their actions by stating "I am outspoken" ... but in this context malicious, and hypocritical would have been more apt. The fact that they kept taking shots long after the initial point was made, bears this out.

    The user who had been attacked merely posted an experience, and was quite open in answering questions, as honestly to how they perceived the answers as possible. What had been attacked were not the experiences themselves, but the person for simply relating them. "I don't believe you" becomes - I think you are a liar. If the attacking user could not see this then they certainly are rather thick or lacking in the very basic social skills.

    This entire incident reminds me of people who will claim to be living with a ghost yet deride, and laugh at alien abductees or vice versa. People who will claim to have encountered a Sasquatch, but call Mothman witnesses nut cases. Why people do this is beyond me, particularly with no regard to the feelings of someone else who has had unusual experiences just different than their own.

    UGH!

    8 comments

    Comment from: SandyCarlson [Visitor] Email
    SandyCarlsonA big ego and an empty mind together makes for typhoon conditions, I think!

    There's a local paper down here that runs a What Do You Say column? These are called-in anonymous comments that some editor chooses from the week's rants. It's amazing what people think they can say about reporters, editors, their mothers, their neighbors...just because they won't be accountable. You wonder where they got the idea they were so important in the first place when that's the best they can offer. Yeesh! I guess your cranky writer could call the Danbury News-Times and spout off and give you a break!
    08/12/07 @ 08:29
    Comment from: Sue [Member] Email
    SueSandy -> Hehehe I should post that up to the board .. :) Why is it that people can be so rude, and nasty while hiding behine phoney user names etc ... cowards I say!
    08/12/07 @ 09:34
    Comment from: Trowbridge [Visitor] Email
    TrowbridgeBeyond the brash or "outspoken" aspect of this attack, what would make a person think reading one thread would be enough information to question a person's character. Without conversing or talking on the phone or meeting someone, this would be jumping to conclusions. Not very logical investigating.
    08/12/07 @ 10:06
    Comment from: Sue [Member] Email
    SueTrowbridge -> This is why we screen our investigators very carefully. This person is definitely not an investigator with us ... :)
    08/12/07 @ 10:18
    Comment from: Matthew James Didier [Visitor] Email
    Matthew James DidierI have to admit, Sue... I was expecting a harsher SmackDown on this one... I know mine would have been.

    There is nothing quite as irritating than someone saying "My experience has more weight than yours" without significant evidence to back that up.

    ...and this was not the case. It was a glib, stupid comment tossed out for seemingly no purpose than...

    a: To state an opinion NO ONE asked for.
    b: To hurt the original poster.

    I'd remind that said user has caused MANY issues in the past and truly made my blood boil at times... and we were tentative about her re-signing up to the new message board...

    I also agree that people DO have the right to dispute something WITH EVIDENCE... but to opine that something is "not believable" just because the person "feels" that way is simple ignorance.
    08/12/07 @ 10:20
    Comment from: Sue [Member] Email
    SueMatthew -> I owe you a coke .. :) You were right...some people will never change.
    08/12/07 @ 10:43
    Comment from: Paul Williams [Visitor] Email
    Paul WilliamsI missed a lot of the action, but did catch Sue's reminder on postinng rules for the forum!

    I have found that forums and chatsites do attract more than a fair share of mindless twits, who have nothing better to do than get peoples hair up! Thankfully PSICAN's forums doesn't get a lot of this junk posted, that is seen elsewhere on the Internet. I'd like to thank both Sue and Matt and all the other Psican staff for making our forums, one of the more truely civilized one's on the Internet!
    08/12/07 @ 16:16
    Comment from: MsDemmie [Visitor] Email
    MsDemmieYou can tell people when they have lost the argument - they resort to personal insults.

    If it were me I would ban them !
    08/12/07 @ 16:35

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