Post details: Weird Wednesday…With Chris Laursen

12/13/06

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Weird Wednesday…With Chris Laursen

Chris Laursen guides us through the midweek with an eclectic exploration of paranormal topics. He is a historian researching how people have related to the paranormal. This week, he offers anecdotes of animal apparitions and contact with pets after they died.



Why not an animal afterlife?
by Chris Laursen

It is the dog returning, the same dog or a different one, a shadow dog I cannot clearly perceive, it has no definite form or color…

- Swedish poet Artur Lundkvist
from Journeys in Dream and Imagination, 1991

Like people, animals seem to be able to come through in many ways after they have died. A good friend of mine from Ottawa had a feline apparition that regularly bounded across her apartment’s hallway. She had lived in the century-old apartment building for nearly six years, and saw the shadowy cat a few times a year.

“Out of the corner of my eye, I’d see this black shadow zip across the width of the hallway. I used to write it off as shadows from the sun, but every time it happened, it was in the same spot, but at different times of the day.” Her immediate thought, whenever it happened, was that it was a black cat. “My first roommate said, ‘Oh yeah, I see it too. It’s our black cat.’ And we’d joke about it.” My friend received further verification from subsequent roommates who also saw the ghost cat. The greatest substantiation of what she saw came when a maintenance man was replacing the fire doors in her apartment. When he was done, he came to speak with her. He turned around, and then looked back at my friend. “Oh, do you have a cat?” he asked, describing a black cat darting across the hall. Having a visitor witness the phenomenon excited my friend, and she called her roommate over and had the mystified repairman repeat what he saw. Interestingly, he saw the cat from a different position than people would usually see it in the hallway. “It would never occur to you in the depths of your mind that it was anything other than a cat,” she told me.

Animal apparitions and afterlife contact is not all that uncommon. Famed medium Allison Dubois (who inspired the popular TV series Medium) wrote in her book Don’t Kiss Them Goodbye that passed on pets figure significantly in the readings she does. In one memorable reading, Allison saw a bird perched on the finger of her client’s recently departed mother-in-law, and the client confirmed that her mother-in-law’s bird died around the same time she did. “Although I knew dogs and cats crossed over,” Allison wrote, “I wasn’t aware that birds could come through from the other side.” Maybe everyone will be reunited with the pets they loved once they die.

My Mom certainly believes so. She recently recounted to me a variety of experiences that she agreed to share here. Her beloved collie, Katie, died this past spring from lymphoma. This was quite hard on my Mom who lives on her own. Over the past few years, two of her cats had died: Kitty and my own cat, Mookie, adopted by my Mom when I moved to Ontario. It was very sad for me to think of my Mom returning to an empty house every night after work and going for walks alone.

But she wasn’t completely alone, I later found out. A week after Katie died, my Mom heard two distinct barks in her house. “I know her barks like you would know your kid’s voice,” my Mom told me. “It was like her saying, ‘I’m still here, I’m okay.’” The signs continued on in the ensuing weeks after Katie’s death. Early one morning, my Mom awoke to hear Katie lie down in her crate in a room down the hall; the crate creaked as she did so. In August, my Mom heard the sound of Katie shaking out her coat in the sitting room. The audible evidence that Katie was still around the house was further verified for my Mom in several dreams she had, where she would be visited by Katie and find that she no longer had the lumps from lymphoma.

When I was younger, after my childhood cat Sylvester died, I remember lying on my parents’ bed on a warm afternoon. I felt what seemed to be Sylvester jumping on the bed, doing circles and resting on the bed near me. I just left my eyes closed. It made me smile. Of course, there was no cat on the bed when I opened my eyes, but I felt that Sylvester had curled up next to me one last time. My Mom has had such experiences as well. Maybe the most interesting experience occurred after Katie’s death in the wee hours of morning. She heard Katie come into her room, turn around to lie down on the floor beside her and smack her lips as if she were going to go to sleep. Then she felt her old cat Kitty come under the blanket (something her cat was prone to doing when she was alive). She reached her hand under the blanket and could feel Kitty’s tale and her rump. She felt Kitty sniff her hand. “It was like I was having a dream, but it was more than a dream,” she said. Whether this was a dream or something experienced while she was awake, the animals’ presence comforted my Mom.

“But what really blows me away are the actual things that have shown up in my house after Katie died,” my Mom said, recollecting how she had found individual pieces of Katie’s fur. “They seemed to come when I was most upset and needed to know that she was okay. The hairs would always stick straight out so I could see them.” One long collie hair appeared on her sweater, and another time, she found one on the upper part of her dining room curtain. Perhaps the strangest finding during this time was when she opened her clothes closet a few weeks after Katie died and found one of Kitty’s claws sitting on the carpet just inside the closet. This was especially unusual since Kitty had been dead for two years. I should mention that my Mom keeps her home meticulously clean.

My Mom recently adopted a new bounding spirit into her home – an energetic collie puppy by the name of Holly. No doubt the two will be watched over by those animals my Mom cared for who have since passed on.

Further reading:

Kim Sheridan. Animals and the Afterlife: True Stories of Our Best Friends’ Journey Beyond Death. Hay House, 2006.

Raymond Bayless. Animal Ghosts. University Books, 1970.

Sue Darroch’s article on animal apparitions:
http://www.pararesearchers.org/Ghosts/animalghosts/animalghosts.html

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Comment from: admin [Member] Email
Terrific article Chris! Thank you, and please do thank your Mom for sharing her experiences with us as well!
PermalinkPermalink 12/13/06 @ 10:19
Comment from: MsDemmie [Visitor] · http://msdemmie.wordpress.com/
Fantastic read ...........
PermalinkPermalink 12/13/06 @ 17:07
Comment from: Chris (remoteplanet) [Visitor]
I've passed your comment to my Mom, Sue. Thanks for the positive feedback, Sue and MsDemmie. Glad you enjoyed it! I have some other surprises in the guest blog stocking over the holidays yet. :-)

Chris
PermalinkPermalink 12/13/06 @ 17:56
Comment from: Waterfall [Visitor] · http://waterfallsparanormal.blogspot.com/
Wonderful article Chris! I've been so attached to my kindred animal friends through my life, since I was a child and always so devastated when they pass on. I empathize with others when their little soul mates pass over.
I was also surprised and very happy to find out how they come back to visit us in dreams, curl up with us in familiar ways while sleeping and just snuggling up with us in those moments that we all cherish the most:) Sometimes I miss them so much, it's so great to have them jump up on the bed at night :) Thanks for the reminder :)
Nancy
PermalinkPermalink 12/13/06 @ 18:42
Comment from: MsDemmie [Visitor] · http://msdemmie.wordpress.com/
Looking forward to reading the rest of them :)
PermalinkPermalink 12/14/06 @ 17:31
Comment from: Faith [Visitor] · http://bunderprotest.blogspot.com
I loved this article, fantastic job!

I firmly believe that there are animals in the afterlife (whatever form that takes for you).
PermalinkPermalink 12/14/06 @ 23:22
Comment from: Andy [Visitor] · http://spicycauldron.com
What a great read, interesting throughout. Thank you for this! You already know my views on the subject, and I still get the occasional visit from my cat Dolly.

I wonder in some instances if time gets thin and allows past, present and future to flicker and come together for moments only - meaning sometimes, say, a cat in the hallway seen fleetingly and vaguely might in fact be a cat in a different time zone. I suppose that might be the difference between clearly intelligent and/or interactive ghosts, and those that appear like recordings and do not interact with people. x
PermalinkPermalink 12/15/06 @ 08:14
Comment from: Andy [Visitor] · http://spicycauldron.com
I should have said, Sue and Matthew (not Chris) know about my experiences this year since my cat Dolly died - Chris, I am sure they'd be happy to point you to the entries I wrote documenting what happened when she passed over, and since. x
PermalinkPermalink 12/15/06 @ 08:15
Comment from: Andy [Visitor] · http://spicycauldron.com
Oh, and on the subject of what different animals have been said to come back, I can add rats, terrapins and catfish to the list.

In the case of the terrapins and catfish, sensed watching from the tank and in the water moving around. The rats, weight on shoulders and the wheel in the cage going round and round for several minutes on its own. Plus a sense of their personalities, in the case of rats, which can be quite unique. x
PermalinkPermalink 12/15/06 @ 08:24
Comment from: Chris (remoteplanet) [Visitor]
Thank you Nancy, Faith and Andy for your wonderful comments! It's a real uplift on a Friday morning to read them.

Andy -> Thanks for mentioning your posts on Dolly. I have found them on your wonderful blog, and I will be sure to print them out for my (Internet-less) Mom. She'll very much appreciate your experiences! Fascinating about the different types of animals that make themselves known from the "other side." Someone on the PSICAN board had also mentioned a bison apparition!

warmest regards,
Chris
PermalinkPermalink 12/15/06 @ 10:21
Comment from: Heather [Visitor] · http://www.bc.psican.org
Hey Chris,

Your mom's story about Katie sounds like ours with Ginny!

After Ginger's death from brain tumors, we heard her bark once in the kitchen and heard her collar clinking. She was very loyal to my dad who lives upstairs, and once I was talking to my dad in the kitchen and I heard Ginny's toenails click on the linoleum. My dad did not hear this.

Also from my childhood, when we lost our cat Maya, who ALWAYS slept on my back if I was turned over on my stomach. I would feel this after her death her little paws "making bread" as she hunkered down. My mom said it was because I loved her so, that I was still feeling the "memory" of it. Nowadays, I'm not so sure that's the extent of it.
PermalinkPermalink 12/15/06 @ 11:36
Comment from: Heather [Visitor] · http://www.bc.psican.org
Hi Andy,

I have heard many wonderful things about pet rats. Of course it makes sense that they might remain with us and shake that wheel a bit!

I like fish. But I've never really felt BONDED, you know? Like one would a furrier pet. I don't know, there's the barrier of the aquarium, maybe, but I had never considered fish to be "haunter candidates". Thanks Andy. I'm thinking that's pretty durned cool!
PermalinkPermalink 12/15/06 @ 11:41
Comment from: Chris (remoteplanet) [Visitor]
Thanks Heather! My Mom will be happy to hear your story. :-)

Maybe the less people bond to a type of animal, the less likely it is that they would experience afterlife contact with them. That is probably why any stories of animal ghosts other than pets are so intriguing. Encounters with living wildlife, especially, are often so fleeting that we would not know for sure if the animal were real or not. We certainly know how quickly a lot of animals can mysteriously disappear - not to forget how much poltergeist activity could be attributed to raccoons and mice in the walls and the attic! In this context, it is also fascinating to consider the spirit stories that go with many kinds of wild animals in many cultures.

Chris
PermalinkPermalink 12/15/06 @ 13:27
Comment from: Lynn Tucker [Visitor] · http://www.motivated-motion.blogspot.com
Ohh I like this one! We had a great dog! She still leaves chew toys in hiding places around the house. I have found them when I lift the sofa cushions to vacuum, and under furniture. She has been dead for quite a while. She lived till she was 16 and was a strong member of our family.
At least twice a week Cya passes by us on the stairs or comes to greet us at the door when we come home. That momentary glimps, then she fades away.......
PermalinkPermalink 12/15/06 @ 20:40
Comment from: Andy [Visitor] · http://spicycauldron.com
Yes, fish can return. Or so it seems. The fish in question was a very large African Walking Catfish, with markings like a cow - brown, white, black. Or like a tabby.

She had real personality. Perhaps there likes the key. She used to tease the cats through the glass of her tank. She knew they couldn't get her, and I think she had a comprehension of the 'outside' or the world of air, that I can't begin to understand. Perhaps it's not dissimilar to our own being able to acknowledge the world of water, or space.

And she was also capable of surviving out of water for long periods in her natural habitat. This was useful when she occasionally went missing from her tank, say whenever we were moving house. She didn't like moving at all, and one time we couldn't find her anywhere. She'd got out the window and was trying to get down the drain!

We don't, I must admit, ever miss schooling fish like guppies or tetras but we do miss her. She was called Geoffrey because we thought she was a he until she laid thousands of eggs in her tank. Thinking about her now, I'm missing her, so I will stop...

My 20-year old terrapin Shiva was a terrible loss. Turtles are often thought stupid because they are slow and don't do much - but that's a mistake. They have intelligence, they just don't evidence it in the same ways as other creatures. x
PermalinkPermalink 12/16/06 @ 13:24
Comment from: Andy [Visitor] · http://spicycauldron.com
Here's a completely unfathomable tale: in a flat we used to live in, in London, whenever we fed our six cats at the time, we used to hear a lion or tiger roar in the corridor between the kitchen and living room. Every night.

It was definitely a big cat. Our domestic cats heard it, lifted their heads from their bowls to look down the corridor but were otherwise completely unperturbed - presumably knowing it to be a spirit, and treating such as quite ordinary. And of course, they don't seem to question the way our species does.

This happened fairly frequently over the year we lived there. I often joked it wanted some food but I doubt a bit of domestic cat food could have satisfied its cravings! That, or perhaps it was drawn by the energies of the pack. x
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